email+cal fixes

aerc/aerc.conf

@@ -37,6 +37,7 @@ sort=unread
 [compose]
 address-book-cmd=khard email --parsable --remove-first-line %s
 header-layout=To|From,Cc|Bcc,Subject
+reply-to-self=false
 
 [multipart-converters]
 text/html=pandoc -f markdown -t html
@@ -71,4 +72,7 @@ audio/*=mpv --no-video
 text/*=vim
 
 [hooks]
+aerc-startup=aerc :terminal khal interactive \
+  && aerc :pin-tab \
+  && aerc :change-tab hjarl
 mail-received=notify-send "[$AERC_ACCOUNT/$AERC_FOLDER] New mail from $AERC_FROM_NAME" "$AERC_SUBJECT"